Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Does he have to be more into you then you are into him to make it work?

My friend came for a short visit from Cameroon.  I was talking to her about my ex and we were talking about her boyfriend.  She told me that no couple loves each other equally.  In her last relationship, she definitely loved him more than he loved her.  Now, in her current relationship, she says that he is more into her than she is into him.  She says she loves him, but he loves her more.  With my ex, I loved him from the beginning to the end.  It wasn't until after we split that I really believed that he cared for me and loved me in his weird way.

But this is my question, in marriage, does the man have to love the woman more for the marriage to work out?  Or can it be the opposite way around?  Do you disagree or agree with my friend about love equality?

I would really appreciate comments on this.

1 pensamientos:

hajar aman shah said...

Salam my sister,
I actually just stumbled to your blog. I've reading through it, and masyaAllah it is very powerful. May God bless you for your talent and your words.
As for this post, I read somewhere, which i vaguely remember saying, "If you love someone you would be willing to give up everything for them, but if they loved you back they'd never ask you to any of it."-or something like that...Have you read "Story of Layla and Majnun" by Nezami? its an amazing story of a degree of love.